Is it really so hard to support and respect your significant other? Is it so hard to say: "You know what, that sounds interesting." instead of spewing :"Well, that's stupid..."
Seriously.
You know, I am going to be effing blunt: "Shut up and be nice". This whole business about being a "realist" is bullcrap!
I do NOT care if you think my desires or curiosities are a waste of time, or useless.
I do NOT care if you think that some of my suggestions are inconsistent with YOUR lifestyle.
I do NOT give a flying **** if you think that taking up Kickboxing classes will be too hard on me, and that I will quit it.
If you are WITH me, then effing SUPPORT me.
Seriously.
It does not hurt you, in any way, to just nod your stupid head and say: " Go for it!"
It does not trouble you to inquire about the Dvorak Keyboard and say: "That sounds awesome. When are you going to get it and let me know how it goes." instead of: "The letters are not at the same place? That's dumb. I know computers and I never seen it around, so you will not be able get it." (You can purchase it or make your own: http://www.wikihow.com/Switch-to-a-Dvorak-Keyboard-Layout)
It does not pain you to be respectful.
God!
And you know this. You are very much AWARE of my feelings. I remind you every single effing day. Stop being rude, condescending, cold, hard, mean spirited, etc. EVERY EFFING DAY!
So, this is what I am going to say:
The day we break up, DO NOT tell your friends how I NEVER told you how I felt.
Do NOT try to pin this break-up on me. You are very much guilty.
Do NOT be surprised that I am with that "friend" I met, because while it was too hard for you to support me in my endeavors, HE was capable of doing so.
Live up to what you did, do not try to play the victim.
Don't worry, in the meantime, I still care and I am still trying... But if things do not change, there will be a point where there is no turning back.
Seriously.
And, I will be taking KickBoxing classes real soon. Jerk.
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